Remember: All new and counterintuitive data at first appears wrong.

If...

You've been stuck at a given level or problem for some time, and you ask someone for help
That person has a genuinely insightful answer borne of experience and judgment

Then, their answer will likely be incongruent with your prior way of thinking.

Your first instinct will be to reject it as WRONG.

The fact is that YOU (your judgment or mental model) about that given issue are likely WRONG.

Allow for this possibility.

Attempt to have a learner's mindset.