Be careful of the lies people tell you that you choose to believe. Lies you begin to tell yourself. These shared lies make it possible for others to hurt and abuse you with your permission.
Wake up. Face the truth. Act to remove toxic people and toxicity from your daily experience.
On the other hand, seek out and embrace those who confront you about the lies you’re telling to, and about, yourself. They will help disabuse you of your false narratives and self-delusions so that you can act with effective agency in the world.