Chris+Aliya #RelationshipGoals
Preface: No one and nothing is perfect. But we must have ideals to strive for. These are ours. This is a living document and, as such, will continue to evolve over time.
We aspire to exhibit the following character traits…
Act with love and not with fear
Express ourselves with clear and effective communication
Hold truth, loyalty and respect as among the highest ideals
Exhibit passion and curiosity
Be slow to anger and quick to forgive
Have a vision for a better world
Have a sense of personal responsibility and accountability
Deliver outcomes driven by consistent and effective action over time
Enjoy moderation in all things, including moderation
To continuously evolve and adapt based on new ideas, experiences and data
We hope to have a relationship that...
Is loving and unashamedly affectionate
Helps us to find, express and experience our best selves
Debates with the goal of finding a new, better truth (vs. arguing to ‘win’)
Encourages us to find and pursue our curiosities and passions
Supports each other through the ups and downs of life
Works together to make the lives of our children, families, friends and neighbors better
Holds each other accountable for our responsibilities and promises
Makes a positive and lasting impact in our community
Balances all things - fun and work, private and social, duty and the pursuit of happiness
Challenges us to grow and evolve
And together, we intend to build…
A sense of home wherever we are in the world
A house that embodies our spirit and generosity in a physical space
An extended actual and found family filled with joy, loyalty and laughter
Children who embrace and participate in all of the above